Dinner was perfect. He was charming, opening doors and pulling out my chair. When the check came, I reached for my wallet—big mistake. “Absolutely not,” he said, sliding his card down. “A man pays on the first date.” The next morning, I saw he’d sent a Venmo request for half the bill. At first, I thought it was a joke, but there was no emoji, no playful message. Just a cold request for $42.50.After texting my friend, she couldn’t stop laughing. “The same guy who said ‘A man pays on the first date’?” she wheezed. I responded, asking if it was a mistake. He insisted it wasn’t. He thought splitting was fair. I had to laugh. I messaged him back: “Don’t act like some old-school gentleman, then send a charge request. That’s weird. ”He left me on read. A week later, I noticed he had deleted the request and sent me $42.50 with a message: “You’re right. That was weird. My bad. ”And just like that, I felt better about humanity. Sometimes, calling people out leads to growth—and in this case, $42.50 back