The moment of discovery must have felt like an earthquake—everything shifting beneath you in an instant. The way you controlled your emotions and made a plan, showing up at the restaurant with a red dress and heels, was a powerful statement. It’s incredibly painful to realize a betrayal like that, especially after so many years of building a life together. Your strength in confronting the situation head-on, without giving him a chance to talk his way out of it, speaks volumes. And while you didn’t cry in the moment, it’s understandable that the weight of everything hit you later. The emotional aftermath of betrayal is intense. But it’s clear that, even in the heartbreak, you recognized your worth. You deserve better, and that realization is both painful and empowering